{"id":620,"date":"2012-03-12T20:21:26","date_gmt":"2012-03-12T20:21:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/goddessrevealed.ca\/?page_id=620"},"modified":"2022-06-12T17:50:21","modified_gmt":"2022-06-12T17:50:21","slug":"about-ina","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/goddessrevealed.ca\/tapro\/about-ina\/","title":{"rendered":"Ina&#8217;s Why"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"620\" class=\"elementor elementor-620\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-59776118 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"59776118\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-210e7ad5\" data-id=\"210e7ad5\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8f26b7d elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"8f26b7d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"214\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/goddessrevealed.ca\/tapro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Ina-Stockhausen_01-214x300.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium wp-image-1699\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/goddessrevealed.ca\/tapro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Ina-Stockhausen_01-214x300.jpeg 214w, https:\/\/goddessrevealed.ca\/tapro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Ina-Stockhausen_01-732x1024.jpeg 732w, https:\/\/goddessrevealed.ca\/tapro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Ina-Stockhausen_01-768x1075.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/goddessrevealed.ca\/tapro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Ina-Stockhausen_01-1097x1536.jpeg 1097w, https:\/\/goddessrevealed.ca\/tapro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Ina-Stockhausen_01.jpeg 1429w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 214px) 100vw, 214px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6ca22202 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6ca22202\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>I believe that often our passions, gifts and callings grow out of our life experiences. I am passionate about helping women heal their relationship with food, their bodies and themselves because of my own learning and my life journey.<\/p>\n<p>Early childhood circumstances saw me being raised by grandparents who were war survivors. Today I know that they were well intentioned and just doing the best they could. But growing up, I interpreted the regular physical punishments, strict rules and continuous criticism as proof that there was something wrong with me. Certainly just being me wasn\u2019t only&nbsp;<em>not<\/em>&nbsp;good enough, it seemed to trigger unpredictable reactions of wrath.<\/p>\n<p>I started to use food to cope with my emotional overwhelm in my early teens. For the next 1.5 decades nobody would notice my struggles because my weight remained fairly constant and just slightly above normal. While I was trying to control my anxiety and depression, nobody witnessed my purging, my over exercising or my distorted perception of my body; nor was anyone aware that I battled feelings of shame and despair while I felt held hostage in a cycle of disordered eating.<\/p>\n<p>It wasn\u2019t until I started practicing and studying dance movement therapy and somatic psychotherapy that I felt connected to my body. And only in this place of connection was I able to heal from emotional eating \/ bulimia.<\/p>\n<p>Today, I practice&nbsp;<a title=\"Philosophy and Approach\" href=\"http:\/\/goddessrevealed.ca\/philosophy-and-approach\/\">somatic psychotherapy<\/a>&nbsp;which integrates mind and body, because I experienced powerful transformation and I continue to witness similar healing in my daily work with clients.<\/p>\n<p>I have learned that the fastest way out of your head and away from the chorus of contrasting \u201cvoices\u201d is to get into your body, especially if you struggle with any form of addiction.<\/p>\n<p><em>Because I know the pain of disordered eating and the often associated body shame, I have chosen to specialize in helping women heal their relationship with food and their bodies.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I also have intimate knowledge of the journey of learning to love myself just the way I am. I am well acquainted with the mindset of trying to be \u201cperfect\u201d or feeling responsible for the well-being of those I love. I\u2019m more than familiar with being driven by the longing to be loved and the desire to feel \u201cgood enough.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sadly, trying to be the best mother or the perfect wife did not create the happy family I dreamed of. The process of having to learn to lovingly forgive myself and others for the mistakes we made was arduous. It felt like an impossible task to try to come to terms with the fact that even doing ones best didn\u2019t stop pain from touching those I love the most.<\/p>\n<p>While navigating this landscape of grief, loss and forgiveness, I was blessed with amazing teachers and healers whose support and guidance was a great gift.<\/p>\n<p>Not all gifts that life bestows upon us however are easily recognized as such. Have you ever felt like saying \u201cI\u2019ll return this, thank you very much. Don\u2019t really want to have this experience?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That is how I felt when years after my separation; I fell in love with a woman. I felt like everything I knew and had learned to love and accept about myself was turned upside down. I didn\u2019t like this new part of me that had been hiding in the shadows.<\/p>\n<p>It brought up all kinds of questions. Who am I? The voices in my head were working overtime, sharing various opinions\u2026none of them very helpful. My family was in shock and also not very helpful.<\/p>\n<p>In the end I learned the most important lesson of all. Becoming who I really am, revealing my inner Goddess and allowing her to shine, is an inside job.<\/p>\n<p>My Goddess revealed loves both men and women and she\u2019s not a perfect mother, even though she adores her children and grandchildren.<\/p>\n<p>My Goddess is a \u201cperfectionist in recovery\u201d and a bit of a control freak at times.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s also a loyal friend, dancer, animal lover, world traveler, bird watcher and devourer of books. Grounded in my spiritual belief system, I\u2019m incredibly grateful for everything I have become and for all the gifts the Universe has bestowed or sometimes thrust upon me.<\/p>\n<p>My Goddess Revealed is also a dedicated healer, counselor and intuitive. I feel very blessed that my extensive professional training and the school of life allow me to follow my calling and do this work.<\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/goddessrevealed.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/innergoddess.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-614\" title=\"innergoddess\" src=\"http:\/\/goddessrevealed.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/innergoddess-300x200.jpg\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/goddessrevealed.ca\/tapro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/innergoddess-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/goddessrevealed.ca\/tapro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/innergoddess-600x402.jpg 600w, https:\/\/goddessrevealed.ca\/tapro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/innergoddess.jpg 720w\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\"><\/a><br><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&nbsp;<\/em><em style=\"font-size: 14.592px;\">I am passionate about offering my wisdom and my gifts to women who are on the journey of healin<\/em><em style=\"font-size: 14.592px;\">g&nbsp;<\/em><span style=\"font-size: 14.592px;\">their<\/span><em style=\"font-size: 14.592px;\">&nbsp;relationship with themselves. I aim to be your cheerleader and guide while you heal and let go of what no longer serves you, so you can proudly and lovingly reveal your Goddess and claim who&nbsp;<\/em><span style=\"font-size: 14.592px;\">you<\/span><em style=\"font-size: 14.592px;\">&nbsp;really are.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I believe that often our passions, gifts and callings grow out of our life experiences. 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